Monday, February 16, 2009

I'd like to bear my testimony...

Have you ever been to a fast and testimony meeting and listened to it as if you had never been to our church before?  The first thing that strikes me, when I do this, is the phrase that almost all children say. They could be anywhere from 2-20 years old and most of the time their testimony begins with, "i'd like to bear my testimony, i know the church is true".  Now, i've noticed that you rarely hear adults begin their testimonies this way.  Why do we continue to insist that our children utter these magic testimony words?  How can they, at 3, "know the church is true"? Many people at 30 are still trying to figure that out for sure.  I understand the faith of a child and that they have an innocence and understanding that many of us lose as we work our way into adulthood.  At the same time, when said by every single child and prompted by every parent, it sounds very rote and almost ritualistic.  A testimony is still a testimony without these words as its precursor.  I love to see and hear children bear their testimonies and share their feelings and experiences.  I feel like the repetition of this phrase cheapens it and makes it feel like something that you just say, without feeling and without thought. Unfortunately, it feels much like the close of a testimony, "in the name of Jesus Christ, amen." When we invoke the name of the Savior at the end of our testimonies, we are inviting His stamp of approval on the things we've said.  However, often times we rush through "inthenameaJesusChristamen". It feels like we sometimes put the same amount of thought and feeling into the beginning and the end of our testimonies...that is- very little or no thought and feeling.  I think as parents, we can do more for our children by talking about how Christ is influencing their lives than teaching them to repeat the words "i'd like to bear my testimony, i know this church is true".  They need to understand what a testimony is and that it centers around Christ and the truly important aspects of the gospel.  Also, teaching them to respect the name of the Savior when they close their testimonies and their prayers, and to think about Him as they say His name.  I think when the church sends out letters about children's participation in testimony meeting, it is simply to eliminate rote, memorized words that everyone repeats, without thought or feeling.  When children stand and share their feelings, the things that are happening to them, it brings the influence of the Spirit in a powerful way.

5 comments:

  1. My dad is a visionary man. He knows the Church is true. He was allowed to have visions to show him this. This doesnt happen to everyone but we cannot discredit those who say they know the Church is true because they do not want to deny the feeling of peace and warmth the Spirit gives them when they've asked the question to their Heavenly Father. Teaching our children that we can know the Church is true lets them know that they too can know.

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  2. I was very wary of this when Izzy got baptized and I knew she would be going up to bear her testimony for the first time. We had a long talk about bearing a testimony of things you really do believe in and not just the same things you hear other people say. I asked her if she loved Heavenly Father and Jesus, and she said yes, so I said that would be a good thing to say. Also, if she loves her family, that would be a good thing to say.(She added her puppy to that) I just made sure that she knew she should only say things she really means, and as a result, her testimony was very sweet and truly sincere.
    Now don't get me started on the families that have like 4 siblings in a row go up and say word for word the exact same thing! I know, I know, don't judge...maybe they really believe the exact same things(even at 2 1/2 yrs old)!

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  3. What does that even mean: "I know the church is true"? Is it a blanket condemnation of all other churches? Is it that the church is the oracle of all truth? Is it that the building you're speaking in will withstand physical natural disasters? Or that it met the building code of the local municipality? Do the general authorities of the church say this at general conference? My guess is that this statement is a pejorative against all other religions. And any individual who would dare question any aspect of the church's doctrine, history or leadership. Which is ironic because what adults tend to say in place of "I know the church is true" is "I know the gospel is true". WWJD or, better yet, what would Jesus say if he bore his testimony?

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  4. to swimordie:
    The Savior would say it is "the only true and living church upon the face of the whole earth." D&C 1:30

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  5. But the testimony does not center on Christ, it's centered on the church and the prophet!

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